Family Members & Dynamics
Asa Ellerup
- Heuermann’s second wife, married in 1996.
- Diagnosed with cancer, she calls the past year a “surreal nightmare” due to both health and the trauma of their home being ransacked by investigators.
- She filed for divorce just days after his July 2023 arrest, citing financial and emotional reasons.
- Despite divorce, she has maintained phone and jail visits with Rex, and continues to voice steadfast support—calling him her “hero” and “family man,” believing him incapable of these crimes.
Victoria Heuermann (28)
- Their only biological daughter. Formerly involved in Rex’s architecture firm in Manhatta.
- Initially hesitant, Victoria confesses she hasn’t fully ruled out his guilt—now believing he is “most likely” the Gilgo Beach killer after privately reviewing public evidence.
- She expresses conflict: “Part of me thinks he didn’t do it… but he could have totally had a double life.”
- Alongside Asa, she’s attended court hearings and is represented by attorney Vess Mitev, who says the children are “caught in the cross hairs” through no fault of their own.
Christopher Sheridan (33)
- Asa’s son from an earlier relationship and Victoria’s stepbrother. He has developmental disabilities and has also been deeply impacted, with his mother saying the children “cry themselves to sleep”.
- Christopher lives with Asa and Victoria and has received counseling and legal representation alongside them.
Home, Relocation & Legal Status
- Massapequa Park home: Bought by Rex’s parents in 1994, the house became a crime scene—severely damaged by investigators using tools including backhoes and cutting tubs.
- Relocation: The family has begun moving possessions to a South Carolina property previously owned by Rex. They’re in the process of relocating permanently.
- Divorce progress: The final divorce settlement was reached in March 2025 after nearly 29 years of marriage—though details remain sealed.
Emotional & Legal Fallout
- Emotional toll: Asa and the children describe trauma, “post?traumatic stress,” and a desperate need for privacy. They feel violated—even compared to being “treated like animals”.
- Public exposure: The family is featured in Peacock’s documentary The Gilgo Beach Killer: House of Secrets, which includes private jail calls—though Asa’s statements were compensated, compensation wasn’t allowed to fund Heuermann’s defense.
- Legal representation: Their attorney Robert Macedonio is safeguarding their rights. Vess Mitev represents the children, underscoring their innocence and distance from the investigation.
What We Know – At a Glance
| Family Member | Age | Position & Commentary |
| Asa Ellerup | ~59 | Divorcing, battling cancer, unwavering in defense of Rex, living through legal & emotional upheaval. |
| Victoria Heuermann | 28 | Torn between loyalty and evidence; believes Rex is “most likely” guilty. |
| Christopher Sheridan | 33 | Vulnerable, deeply affected by the upheaval, reliant on family support. |
What’s Next?
- Trial developments: Court is set to hear arguments on DNA and forensic evidence on June 17—closely watched by the family.
- Family’s future: Asa and the children are working to rebuild in South Carolina, while staying engaged with legal proceedings and protecting their privacy.
- Emotional recovery: The trio is continuing counseling, trying to find stability outside Massapequa Park
Final Take
The Rex Heuermann family stands irrefutably at the heart of one of New York’s most disturbing unsolved cases—navigating a complex blend of grief, loyalty, public scrutiny, and the fight for truth. Whether one views them as innocent bystanders or forever linked by blood, their struggle is undeniable. Find more engaging celebrity stories on our homepage.
